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  • Holy Shit I'm a Manager!

    Engineering Management First Aid

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No-one prepares you for this job

You've just become an Engineering Manager and nobody told you what that actually means.
Should you still be coding? How do you have that difficult conversation you wake worrying about at 2am? What does good even look like? And why does nobody else seem to be panicking as much as you are?
Here's the thing: they are. They're just better at hiding it.

Who Am I?

I'm Val, executive leader and certified coach. I've spent 18 years in tech, hands on coder for 13 until I realised I had to let it go 😉. I've supported hundreds of tech leaders, ran teams of 150+ people and learned some hard lessons along the way you can learn from.

I know exactly what that 'Holy Shit I'm a manager' moment feels like because I've lived it myself, without the support you're about to get.

52+ bite size lessons

Pick it up and put it down in the gaps in your day. Open it in a tab, read it on your phone between meetings, ctrl+F when you need the bit about giving feedback to someone who cries.

Hands-on activities

Every section is packed with practical activities and question to work through to apply what you learn, not just theory.

Talk to me

Put the answers to your activities in the forum for me to reply to, or reach out to me and other EMs in the slack community. Yes me, actual Val.

Unlimited Access*

come back whenever you need to, with free updates included
*The platform insists on an expiry date. We've given you 10 years. If you're still unclear on management by then... we should talk.

How it works

No videos. Intentionally. Built for how engineering managers actually work, which is never "sitting down for 45 uninterrupted minutes with a notepad."

From 'Holy Shit!' to 'I Got This!'

52 bite-sized lessons, direct access to me, and the manual nobody handed you on day one. That's how you get the answers to your questions.

This course is everything I wish someone had handed me on day one. No dry corporate BS. No AI-generated generic crap. No pretending this job is easy when it is ambiguous and scary. There is no undo button when you mess up with people!

You'll be able to run one-on-ones that don't suck the life out of you or them, give feedback that lands without anyone crying (including you), manage your boss as skillfully as you manage your team, and keep your shit together when everything is on fire.

Come in feeling like an imposter.
Leave feeling like you've got this.

Course Curriculum

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How Long Does the Course Take?

There are 52+ lessons, so if you did a lesson a day it would take around a month and a half. But if you really went for it and drank a lot of coffee you could complete the course in around 20 days or less.

How Do I Pay?

We use Paypal to take payments. You will be sent a receipt via TrainerCentral (the LMS system I use) so be sure to use the correct billing address if you are expensing via your company.

Will I Get A Certificate

Yes there is a certificate issued at the end of the course.

What if there's a problem?

You can contact me anytime via the contact form or drop me a message on LinkedIn . You can also DM me directly using the Slack community. I aim to respond within 1-2 days at the latest.